Romantic Massage  

Everyone wants to be in a fulfilling relationship, but the problem starts, when we start taking things for granted.  If you want to find happiness in a relationship, both the partners need to work on it together. Lack of intimacy can often make couples hit a rocky patch. If you ever find yourself in such a situation, the best thing would be to regain the sense of intimacy by taking proper steps. One such important step starts in the bedroom with a romantic massage. Before we start on the topic, you should remember that romantic massage is all about exploring your partner’s body and giving him/ her sensual pleasure.  

Romantic Massage Techniques 

Here is a brief overview on some of the romantic massage techniques that you can use in the bedroom to rejuvenate the spark in your relationship.   

1. Preparation: this is a very important aspect of the massage therapy. Schedule the massage session when both of you have a lot of time in your hands, probably a Saturday night. Arrive home early, and set the ambiance for the massage. Put on some slow music, light some aromatic candles and make a bath with aromatic oils.  Keep some fresh towels and massaging lotion within hands reach. 
2. Starting the session: After your partner arrives home, ask them to join you in the bathtub. You can start by lathering them with soap and then gently cleaning off their bodies. A refreshing bath and shower can boost the effects of a romantic massage. 
3. Massage: both the partners should dab themselves dry with soft towels and head off to the bedroom for the massage. The massage session can be continued while both partners are still undressed. 
4. The Back: As a rule of thumb, you should start the massage with your partner’s back and then move on to the shoulder, the buttocks and the back portion of the legs. The massaging motion should be circular and you can use the palms as well as the thumbs to perform the action. Use a little amount of oil to make the motion frictionless. Aromatic oils can boost the effects of a romantic massage. 
5. Front: as your partner flips over, start with a gentle scalp massage and then move on to his/ her chest and arms. For both the female and male recipients the nipples are good erogenous zones where you might focus your efforts. As you move down, gently massage the abdominal area and the legs. While massaging the toes you can gently massage the tips of the toes to give immense sensual pleasure to your female partner. 
6. Genitals: Finally, you should concentrate on stimulating the genitalia of your partner. Remember the objective is not to make your partner orgasm but to make them relax. Sometimes romantic massages might lead to sexual encounters, which will enhance the intimacy between the couple. It is important to go with the flow and let your bodies decide what to do next. As the massage giver, you should be calm and poised. 
7. The romantic massage techniques are time tested and they will surely bring back the spark in your love life, do not be afraid to improvise though.